Picture the group chat. Forty-two messages about dates, beds, and who is bringing the salad. Someone asks about the budget. Someone else has gone quiet.
A good checklist for planning a group holiday turns that chaos into a clear plan. It keeps everyone informed and the organiser sane. This guide walks you through every step. It also shows how an exclusive-use stay makes the job easier. We mean Berrima, in the NSW Southern Highlands.
Why You Need a Checklist for Planning a Group Holiday
Group trips rarely fail because of the destination. They fail because of the details. One missed detail can ripple through the whole weekend.
Here are the problems organisers tell us about most often:
- Split accommodation. Half the group sleeps at one hotel and half at another. The evenings fall flat.
- Money confusion. Nobody agrees on who pays what, or when.
- Mixed ages and interests. Teenagers want action. Grandparents want a quiet chair.
- Meal chaos. Feeding thirty or more people three times a day takes real planning.
- Last-minute dropouts. One cancellation changes the numbers and the costs.
A checklist fixes these problems before they start. It gives you a clear order of tasks. It also gives your group one source of truth, instead of a messy chat thread.
If you are the organiser, remember this. You are not just booking a house. You are protecting a shared memory for everyone who comes.

Why Berrima Retreat Solves the Group Holiday Puzzle
Berrima Retreat is an exclusive-use group property in Berrima, NSW. It sits in the Southern Highlands, about 90 minutes from Sydney or Canberra. Your group has the entire property to itself. There are no other guests and no shared spaces.
The property sleeps 22 to 55 guests, and each guest has their own bed. It has 11 bedrooms and eight bathrooms. That means one booking covers the whole group. You never need to split people across hotels.
The property also removes many common planning headaches:
- A commercial kitchen that handles big meals for big groups.
- An indoor events room that holds up to 65 guests.
- A covered outdoor area that holds up to 150 guests for larger gatherings.
- A private pool and firepit for long summer days and cool evenings.
This is why a stay here suits so many groups. Families, wedding parties, school groups, sports teams, and corporate teams all use it. The space adapts to the group, not the other way around.
The Benefits of Staying Under One Roof
Staying together changes the feel of a trip. You swap hotel lobbies for shared breakfasts. You swap car parks for conversations on the deck.
The best checklist for planning a group holiday always asks one question first. Where will everyone sleep? When the answer is "together", most other tasks get simpler. Here is why.
- Connection Comes Easily
- When everyone stays on the same property, people mix naturally. Cousins who rarely meet end up playing together. Colleagues chat over the firepit instead of checking emails.
- Small moments add up. A shared coffee before breakfast. A game of table tennis after lunch. A late chat on the outdoor bar deck. These moments rarely happen when people sleep in separate hotels.
- Costs Stay Clear
- One property means one booking and one set of costs. You divide it by the number of guests. There are no surprise room upgrades or separate hotel bills to track.
- Clear costs also mean fewer awkward conversations. Everyone sees the same number. Everyone pays on the same dates. The organiser spends less time chasing money and more time enjoying the weekend.
- Privacy and Freedom
- Exclusive use means you set the pace. Play music late. Run a big family birthday. Hold a team workshop without interruptions. Nobody else shares the grounds.
- You can also relax in a way that hotels rarely allow. Wander to the pool in your swimmers. Let the kids run across the grounds. Head out for a morning paddle on the dam. Nobody is watching, and nobody is waiting for you to finish.
- Shared Meals Without the Stress
- Eating together is often the highlight of a group trip. The commercial kitchen is built for large groups, so cooking for thirty or more feels manageable. Share the jobs around and the work stays light.
- Outdoors, the BBQ and wood-fired pizza oven add more choice. A pizza night is a simple way to get everyone involved. Kids can top their own pizzas. Adults can chat while they cook.
- Less Travel, More Time Together
- When your whole group sleeps in one place, you lose the daily shuffle. Nobody waits for the last car. Nobody drives between hotels at night. You gain hours that you can spend together instead.
- Arrivals and departures also become easier. Guests arrive at the same address. Everyone knows where to meet. The group starts the weekend together and ends it together.
- Something for Every Age
- Children can use the sand pit and the Giant Kangaroo Jumper. Teenagers can head to the cinema room or the pool. Adults can relax on the outdoor bar deck. Everyone stays within reach of each other.
- Older guests benefit too. The cinema room offers a quieter place to sit with board games. The covered entertaining area has giant chess for a slower pace. Each age group finds its own corner, yet the group never feels split.
- Flexibility for Different Schedules
- Groups never run on one clock. Early risers want a walk and a coffee. Night owls want the firepit. Parents with little ones need a rest after lunch.
- Under one roof, everyone can follow their own rhythm. Yet the whole group is always close. You can then bring people together for the moments that matter most, like a shared dinner or a group photo.
Staying under one roof turns a group trip into a shared experience. Meals, laughter, and quiet moments all happen in the same place. Costs stay simple, and the organiser can relax too. For a group in the Southern Highlands, it is the easiest way to keep everyone together.

Things to Do at Berrima Retreat and Nearby
A great group holiday mixes planned activities with free time. Here is what your group can enjoy on site and close by.
On The Property
Berrima Retreat is more than just accommodation. It is a private group getaway where families, friends, colleagues, teams and communities can come together, have fun, relax and create lasting memories.
With exclusive use of the property, your group can enjoy the mansion, recreational facilities, outdoor spaces and unique farm experiences without sharing the accommodation spaces with other guests.
There is something for everyone!
1. Swimming and Outdoor Activities
- Swimming Pool: Enjoy our seasonal, unheated swimming pool, perfect for cooling off during the warmer months.
- Poolside Volleyball: Challenge your family, friends or teammates to a friendly volleyball game using the volleyball net beside the pool.
- BBQ Area: Prepare delicious meals and enjoy outdoor dining with your group.
- Wood-Fired Pizza Oven: Make your own pizzas and turn mealtime into a fun group activity.
- Firepit: Gather around the firepit after dinner, share stories, enjoy conversations and spend quality time together.
- Extensive Grounds: Enjoy plenty of open space for outdoor activities, relaxation and group gatherings.
- Bikes: Explore and enjoy the property on two wheels.
2. Games and Entertainment
There are plenty of entertainment options to keep guests of all ages occupied.
- Covered Entertaining Area: A spacious covered area for socialising, games and group activities.
- Pool Table: Challenge your friends or family to a game of pool.
- Table Tennis: Enjoy some friendly competition.
- Giant Chess: Play a larger-than-life game of chess.
- Activities Hut: An adult-only recreational space for grown-ups to relax and enjoy.
- 85-Inch Cinema Screen: Enjoy movie nights together in the media room.
- Board Games: Perfect for quieter evenings and indoor entertainment.
- Kids Arena: A dedicated play area where children can enjoy themselves.
3. Water Activities
For guests who enjoy water-based activities, the property offers:
- Kayaking: Explore and enjoy the property's dam.
These activities offer a wonderful opportunity for guests to get outdoors and enjoy time together.
4. Farm Animals and Unique Experiences
One of the things that makes Berrima Retreat special is its farm atmosphere and opportunities to interact with animals.
- Alpacas: Meet and enjoy our friendly alpacas.
- Sheep and Baby Lambs: Get up close to our farm animals and enjoy a lovely countryside experience.
- Kangaroo Jumper: One of our standout attractions! Enjoy a unique kangaroo jumping experience, which we understand is the only attraction of its kind offered at a property in Australia.
These experiences are particularly memorable for families and children.
5. Events and Function Facilities
Berrima Retreat is designed for large groups, celebrations, functions and special occasions.
- Air-Conditioned Events Room: An indoor function space with seating for up to 65 people.
- Covered Outdoor Event Area: A spacious covered entertaining area that can accommodate more than 300 guests.
- Private Mansion: Enjoy exclusive use of the accommodation and property, without other accommodation guests sharing your space.
- Extensive Grounds: Plenty of room for celebrations, outdoor activities and group gatherings.
Whether you are organising a wedding, birthday, family reunion, corporate retreat, school camp, youth gathering or sports team getaway, Berrima Retreat offers spaces to bring everyone together.
6. Kitchen and Dining Facilities
Preparing meals for a large group is made easier with our extensive kitchen facilities.
The property includes:
- Two ovens.
- Fourteen cooktops.
- Two dishwashers.
- Five large refrigerators.
- A separate wine fridge.
- BBQ facilities.
- A wood-fired pizza oven.
- Extensive kitchen space for preparing meals for large groups.
For coffee lovers, there is a Nescafé Dolce Gusto pod machine and an espresso machine with a milk frother and grinder. Guests using the espresso machine should bring their own coffee beans.
An Aldi supermarket is also nearby for groceries and everyday supplies.
7. Accommodation and Sleeping Arrangements
Berrima Retreat provides spacious accommodation for large groups.
- Mansion: 11 accommodation rooms with 10 king beds.
- North Wing: Additional accommodation with one king bed and capacity for up to 12 guests.
- Total Capacity: Up to 43 guests in the Mansion, or up to 55 guests when the North Wing is included.
- Flexible Bedding: King beds can be configured into king singles to suit your group's sleeping arrangements.
- Quality Linen: Linen and one bath towel per paying guest are provided.
- Parking: More than 20 parking spaces are available.
Our accommodation rooms are named Berrima, Bowral, Bundanoon and Burradoo.
8. Optional Spa and Massage Services
For guests who want to add some extra relaxation to their stay, Berrima Retreat can arrange an optional massage service through The Royal Masseur.
This service is an additional expense and must be requested and arranged in advance. Guests should include it in their budget if they wish to enjoy this experience.
Imagine starting your morning with breakfast together, watching the children enjoy the Kids Arena and meet the alpacas, while others explore the grounds or enjoy a bike ride.
In the afternoon, your group can enjoy swimming, volleyball, kayaking, paddleboarding, pool, table tennis or even our unique Kangaroo Jumper.
As the evening comes, everyone can gather around the firepit, prepare a BBQ or make pizzas in the wood-fired pizza oven. You can finish the night with a movie on the 85-inch cinema screen or simply enjoy each other's company.
And the best part? Your group gets to enjoy the property exclusively. No other accommodation guests, no shared accommodation spaces and no distractions.

Berrima Retreat is where groups come together, experiences are shared and memories are made.
If your group wants a massage, ask about the optional spa service. It is run by The Royal Masseur and is requested in advance. It is an extra, so plan for it in your budget.
In and around Berrima
Berrima village is one of Australia's best-preserved Georgian-era villages. Its sandstone streets are made for a slow stroll. You will find boutique shops, cafés, and restaurants close by. Cellar doors and wineries are also nearby.
Nature lovers can explore the national parks of the Southern Highlands. For more ideas, see the Southern Highlands guide on Australia.com. You can also browse Visit NSW for events and regional information. Our Activities page lists more options for groups.
Your Checklist for Planning a Group Holiday: Step by Step
This is the heart of the guide. Work through these steps in order. Print it or paste it into your group chat.
1. Choose an organiser and agree on roles
One person leads, but that person should not do everything. Hand out jobs early. Assign one person each to meals, activities, and transport.
2. Set the budget before you pick the venue
Ask every guest what they can spend. Do this first, not last. Agree on what is included, such as accommodation, food, and activities.
3. Pick dates that suit most people
Offer two or three date options. Use a poll so nobody feels left out. Check school holidays, long weekends, and local events.
4. Lock in the group size
Get firm numbers early. Count adults, teenagers, children, and babies separately. Ask about any access or mobility needs early.
5. Choose accommodation that keeps everyone together
This is the biggest decision you will make. Look for exclusive-use accommodation with a bed for every guest. Ask what is included and what costs extra. Contact our team to check availability for your dates.
6. Collect deposits and agree on payment dates
Set a clear deadline for deposits. Write down the refund rules. Share them with the whole group in one message.
7. Plan transport and arrival times
Most guests will drive from Sydney or Canberra. Organise car pools to cut costs and parking worries. Agree on a rough arrival window, so the check-in runs smoothly.
8. Plan the meals
Meals are where groups often struggle. Decide who cooks, who shops, and who cleans. A commercial kitchen makes batch cooking far easier. Collect dietary needs and allergies before you shop.
9. Build a flexible activity plan
Plan one or two group activities per day. Leave the rest of the time open. Offer choices for different ages and energy levels.
10. Share a simple house guide
Send a one-page summary before the trip. Include the address, arrival time, what to bring, and house rules. Our free Group Getaway Planner (PDF) can help you get started.
11. Pack the shared essentials
Check what the property provides first. Then list what the group needs to bring. Think swimwear, warm layers for evenings, games, and any special occasion items.
12. Plan the departure
End the trip well. Agree on check-out jobs and a clear departure time. A tidy handover keeps the experience positive for the next group.

Common Mistakes to Avoid When Planning a Group Holiday
Even a strong checklist for planning a group holiday can slip. These are the mistakes we see most often.
- Leaving money talk until the end
- Awkward conversations get harder with time. Share the full cost per person early. Send one clear message with the payment dates. Then stick to them.
- Trying to please everyone every hour
- Groups do not need a packed timetable. Too many activities leave people tired and cranky. Plan the highlights. Leave space for naps, swims, and slow chats.
- Forgetting the quiet guests
- Some people never speak up in a group chat. Ask them directly about food, mobility, and sleeping needs. A short private message works well.
- Underestimating meal planning
- Feeding a crowd takes more time than most people expect. Write a simple meal plan for each day. Share the shopping list. Rotate cooking and cleaning jobs so nobody burns out.
- Skipping the backup plan
- Weather changes and people get sick. Pick one or two indoor options for wet days. A cinema night or a board game session can save a rainy afternoon.
A Sample Weekend Plan for Your Group
Use this as a starting point. Adjust it for your group, your ages, and your energy.
Friday: arrive and settle in
Guests drive up from Sydney or Canberra and arrive in the afternoon. Hand out bed assignments on arrival. Keep dinner simple, such as a BBQ or wood-fired pizza. Finish the night around the firepit.
Saturday: explore and play
Start with a relaxed breakfast together. Spend the morning in Berrima village. Wander the sandstone streets, browse the boutique shops, and stop for coffee. Return for a long lunch. In the afternoon, split into small groups for the pool, kayaking, or games. End the day with a shared dinner and a movie in the cinema room.
Sunday: slow down and say goodbye
Cook a big breakfast. Pack up and complete the check-out jobs together. Take a group photo before the cars leave. Many groups say this photo becomes their favourite part of the weekend.
Tips for Different Types of Groups
This checklist for planning a group holiday works for any group. Small tweaks make it fit your crowd.
- Family reunions: Mix structured time with free time. Our Family Reunions page has ideas.
- Weddings: Keep the wedding party together and avoid late-night transfers. See our Weddings page.
- Corporate retreats: Book a workshop space and schedule downtime. Explore our Corporate Retreats page.
- School groups: Plan supervision, meals, and learning activities early. Visit our Schools page.
Seasonal Planning Advice
The Southern Highlands has four distinct seasons. Each one suits a different kind of trip.
- Summer: Pool days, kayaking, and long evenings outdoors. Book early, because this season fills fast.
- Autumn: Cooler, calmer days in the village. It is ideal for walking and long lunches.
- Winter: Cold nights are perfect for the firepit and movie evenings. Pack warm layers.
- Spring: Milder weather returns. It suits celebrations and family gatherings.
Weekends book out first. If your group is flexible, midweek stays can be easier to secure.
Conclusion: Make Your Group Holiday Easy
Every great trip starts with a plan. A simple checklist for planning a group holiday keeps the details under control. It also frees you to enjoy the time with your people.
Berrima Retreat takes care of the biggest piece. Your whole group stays together on one private property in the Southern Highlands. You get space, privacy, and room for everyone to relax.
Ready to plan your group getaway? Check availability or enquire at berrimaretreat.com.au, call 1300 76 13 76, or email bookings@berrimaretreat.com.au.